How to get a background check on your boyfriend
Do you suspect that there may be more to your boyfriend than meets the eye? Have you seen signs that he isn’t telling you the whole truth? Are you reluctant to take your relationship to the next level until you know more about him? Whatever your reasons it’s always a good idea to do a background check on your partner. Hopefully it will set your mind at rest and you can get on with being happy together. Here’s how to get a background check on your boyfriend.
First steps in checking out your boyfriend
Before you rush to a private investigator or an online public records database you should do a little probing of your boyfriend by asking him some questions. Ask him about anything you can think of like where does he live, how long has he lived there, where did he live before, where does he work, how long has he worked there etc.
Be subtle in your questioning and be interested in what he has to say. It will make it easier for him to talk if he doesn’t feel as if he’s been interrogated.
Talk to his friends and family too and make mental notes of what they tell you. Look for any inconsistencies in the stories that they all tell you. If your boyfriend is being open and truthful with you then there won’t be any inconsistencies.
Hiring a Private Investigator to check out your partner
The traditional way to get a background check done on someone is to hire a private detective (PI) to dig up the information for you. This is an effective method and if you use a good PI they can be very thorough with their investigations.
The problem with hiring a PI is that it can get expensive because you have to pay for their time. You will also have to pay a PI the same amount again should you need a background check done on someone else. If you do this many times be prepared to spend a lot of money.
Use an online database just like the law enforcement agencies do
Wouldn’t it be better if you could pay a small fee just once and gain access to a service that combines all of the available public databases and places the information at your fingertips? Believe it or not these services do exist and they are becoming very popular. They allow you to do as many online background checks as you want on as many people as you want whenever you want.
Until recently the ability to search for information on someone on this scale was reserved only for the law enforcement agencies. Today you can be using the same databases that they use. If you need a background check on your boyfriend then an online public records database could be a great place to start.